Bold & beautiful

Our biggest fear: We may be from different parts of the world..May be from different background..may have different colour..there can be so many different things about us BUT the is one similar between you and me...it's our fear...Our fear of people's perception about us..The world will always have perception about us..no matter how good you do.. The only way to prevent ourself is to change the physical surround which is not always possible...So the only way is to bring the change in us.How to bring the change? The moment when we are feeling bad or we are feeling low we need to do something to change the state of mind that we are in.It is because only after changing the state of mind we can have better course of action and better result..To get something different you have to do something different. The 1st thing to change our mood is to change the body position.To stand up like superman..head held high with straight back and keeping shoulders and chest firm and ta

THE GODDESS: The true strength and the inspiration for millions of people.Goddess Durga was created to killed the Demon and saved mankind.I feel till day every girl has a Durga in her..The time she knows she can change not only her own destiny but she can also change life of millions of people.. Goddess Durga is the nutured,the protector,the Diva...She symbolises strength.She was created to give human a learning that woman can have so much of strength and what wonder she can do when required.. She also teachings that when there is immense pain and trouble caused to the innocent people...there will a Durga coming to protect them and fight for them..Every year Goddess comes and takes all the pain away....

The other side of the Grass: This blog of mine is inspired by my awesome story teller aunt Sumita..Her narration moved me completely from head to toe. Let me begin the story of a beautiful and elegant 24 year old Meera who is travelling in a train with her Mom from a small town to a big city with lots of hopes,dreams and excitement.She is a cheerful,happy and soulful person...very bright and radiant..her smile is like a bright day, brings joy to anyone... People in that train noticed her and got a very positive vibe from her..She got the window seat and she is very excited for her trip..As the train started she shouted with excitement and told her mom.."Mom see the train is running so fast...leaving the station behind."Her mom replied to her " Ya...it is"and asked her not to be so excited as she noticed that other people felt wierd and started looking at Meera.. As time passed,Meera got more excited and asked many question to her mom like"Mom see th

IMPORTANCE OF PAIN IN LIFE: Pain is just like a dark night before a bright morning.We often pray to God for well being and happiness and to protect us from any kind of pain in life..The prayer is just like praying for a days and not nights. I pray to God for well being and also pray that if something unfortunate happens to give me the strength either fight it or bear it or give the strength to face it. Pain in something that we all have been through or going through.It is a constant process.If you haven't you will face it in future..Its like universal truth like death.Pain can be physical or mental but the impact is direct towards our brain,nerves,heart and soul. I believe that true strength comes from pain.Whenever I am in pain I ask WHY ME????Many people don't get the answer but I get it..The answer is you are strong to handle and gold needs to be burnt to purify it and increase its value.The best part about any pain...either mental or emotional is healing... The

THE NEW BEGINNING: The journey begins from being papa's little girl to a would be wife.Being a daughter is always a great feelings to a great supportive family.My family raised me like son and always made feel confident and strong.This phase of life is beautiful,little challenging and with full of surprise.Very few lucky people in this world get a great friend as life partner.A friend who will support in the most critical phases of life.I am really fortunate to find someone who respects my individuality and respect my differences as well.Respect ,understanding & care keeps love fresh through the entire life.Thank you Ganesh for this beautiful Friendship. Our generation is a generation where love comes with unlimited conditions or restrictions.In this phase of life I have learnt a very simple yet impactful way to keep any relationship beautiful "Care".Never stop caring in any close relationships.When we care..we try to understand and treat our loved ones a

How to gain your own respect? The most important learning of recent days is how to gain your own respect. The only way is to correct your own mistake which is not yet rectified.Eg. Sometimes we break few relationship because of ego and conflict and years later we realise that we lost something which was precious.We should just keep our mind open and try once to sort.Maybe we get that friendship back..Its a great feeling. The another way is to overcome each huddles and work on each weakness so that one day our own weakness is converted into strength.Practise can only help us in doing it.Focus can make impossible possible.People's perception should not impact hard work.It should make our determination strong.

You Are Unique: You have unique smile, thoughts,expression,actions,reactions, looks,hopes,feelings,sensations,figure,size, Shape & emotions...Then why to copy someone else.You are born with everything unique.. Believe in yourself..Your time will change with its own pace and make you realise how special you are...You are your own strength.. BE A LEADER AND NOT A FOLLOWER. It's because a leader will always be 1st and make ways for others...It really takes alot to be a leader but it worth the pain.You gain your own respect and believe yourself more.

The true strength Mom The only person to love with no conditions, no limits and no complaints.There are millions of articles,songs and stories written about mom.The only thing that we miss is to say thanks to the lady of life.Its very difficult to understand mom as they never ask anything for themselves.Today when my mom is living in different city I understand her importance in my life.I have always been papa's girl but I nvr understood how much I love her.She gave me something more than my life.She gave me understanding of ones identity.She explained me the strength of goodness.Always treats me like a baby.Her believe in me gave me the wings to fly and dream of being the Eagle and fly higher than anyone's imagination.Thanks is a very small word..Mom's love actually protects from every obstacle in life..Its the true strength..

GRATITUDE: Gratitude is not just being thankful but it always makes us feel how luck and how fortunate we are to getting the best gifts of life.We have or get so many things in life but we never cherish.So we tend to even loose whatever we have..Issues and difficult situations will always be in life but we should be ungrateful for whatever we have because there are many people those who don't even have things which already have..A blind person can never see the beautiful world that we are in. Small challenge for everyone: Be thankful for atleast 3 things everyday for 1 week and feel the difference within.

HOW TO BE HAPPY WITH YOURSELF ? We often get scared to be alone or feel bad when we are lonely..I used to feel the same thing every time when I was alone.Then I realise that I cannot always be with my family and friends all the time..There are few battles which we have to fight alone..However it doesn't mean that we feel bad about it.Finally I got some effective ways that worked for me to overcome my negative feelings.. 1.Acceptance:The most important way is to just accept the way we are..We always tend to be influenced by other people's opinion.We even start judging our self and compare our self with others..The fact is we cannot be like anyone and no one can be like us..We all are born unique and special.Its only that we fail to accept ourselves for who we are. 2.Not being judgemental:The time we stop judging ourselves as to who is thinking what about us..We get an inner freedom.I personally care about those people's thoughts,who are very close to me.No matter w

LANGAUGE  Lnagauge si teh olyn awy ot commuincaet.Smoetimse ew spaek uor haert uot sitll ew cannto maek impatc .Wyh ti becoems os difficltu ot exlpain whta ew aer feeilng.Ti hurst whne evne a propre lnagauge cannto hepl peolpe ot commuincaet. The entire paragraph is incorrect and not even a single word is correct.However we can read and understand what is written.I understanded a very important thing in my life that.Expression,feeling and intonation can beat even the grammar and words in the language.I often feel two people with different language can communicate better than people speaking same language.It can only happen when we speak with humanity.Human expression & Human touch is something that any human can connect with.However it is reducing day by day..My only motive of this note is to share my experience that even I speak my heart out it always works for me..People connect more with emotion than any language..

                                  FRIEND Hugs you ...but not your life partner. Care for you ...but not your family. Shares your pain...but no blood relation. A true friend scolds like a Dad! Cares like a Mom! Irritates like a Sister! Teases like a Brother.... And finally loves you more than a lover...Always try to spend few seconds with your friend...even if you are busy..because one day you might get free time but you might not get your friends back..Love with not expectations because IT'S A FEEL NOT A DEAL.... No matter whenever you meet your friends you always feel happy...thats the essence of friendship...

Gudmorning everyone for the fresh start of the day..One challenge for the day... 1. At least make 3 people smile. 2.Spend the entire day with gratitude. 3.Forgive 1 person who hurted. 4.Spend few minutes in prayer. Believe Today is my day.Feel the happiness of walking with an invisible crown.

People often say that two girl cannot be best friend.However I got to know about true friends from my best friend & the prettiest girl on world MOHANA.I was going through a depression phase of my life when she actually stood beside me.Althought today we are different cities but still very close to each other.Mohana is very enthusiastic and jovial.I have actually seen very few people living their life.Often we are inside an invisible cage of fear,responsibility,relationship,carrier and list continues.To stand differently in the world of copy cat is often very rare.Her presence in my life is just like fresh air.A great friend in life can heal even the deepest pain in life

People will try to bury us by doubting us, rejecting us,humiliating us and by making fun of us.Its on our hand to be a seed and rise no matter what happens.The universe will change the climate for us to rise only if we want to.Believe in ourselves will turn dreams in reality.Our truth is nothing but our thoughts.Each individual is born with power to change destiny and even the world.Our inner confidence can radiate in outer world and making our wishes possible.All we need is to stand strong and unaffected by the outer negative world. Rachita

BOLD  & BEAUTIFUL  I understand the true meaning of these two words now.Bold means just to be yourself 100% even when no one is beside you.Beautiful is feeling the beauty of the soul and recognise our inner beauty.The only practise that changed my life even though I was shattered,broken & lost was BELIEVE.Eventually with time I realised that I am not going to let someone else decide my life or I won't give the key to my happiness.It will be only my right to decide my life.I started believing that I am born to do something better and meaningful in life.I chose purpose on lifestyle.Life started to change unbelievably. Rachita