WEAKNESS OF STRENGTH:
This story is about JOEY.Joey is a 19 year old boy living in Mumbai working in a call centre to support his family.He is very ambitious and strong person,wants to achieve something in life.Joey...She lives in New York..A 31 year old single mother works as journalist.She takes care of her child and she is very strong,hardworking independent and confident woman.There is another Joey in Tokyo...who is 26 year old transgender and often judged and misunderstood..Who works for an NGO.Joey is very strong and determined and faces the world boldly..Finally My favorite...Joey who lives in Berlin...14 year old boy..who wants to be a violinist...wants to play internationally.He is very charming,polite but very strong individual..He is very focus and clear about his dream.
Do you find something common about all the character's other than their names????
All of them are very strong..Inspite of their age,nationality,gender and professional,they are determined and accepts all the challenges in their life and faces them boldly..They are not much affected by what people's think or say about they..Their vision is very clear about their life....Then howcome strength have any weakness....Everything of too much is dangerous...Even being too good is harmful..
All of them are going through the same struggle..In the process of being strong and showing strong...They forgot to cry,they forgot that they can be weak at times and have their own vulnerability..They are so hard on themselves that at times they forget to enjoy life..As they are very strong so maximum of the responsibilities are given to them.Even if there is no bandwidth they cannot say NO and tries to prove themselves everytime..that they can handle everything..They often don't knw how to react..Even if they are deeply hurt or upset they show they are strong unaffected..Even if they show they are upset...or they vent out...All they get to hear.."How can you react this way?You are so strong?You are the sorted person?Atleast you should behave sensibly or matured.
We always assume them to be strong...We always expect them to be the same..as they have always been strong..We feel that they can handle it by their own.The truth is even the strongest people needs support and understanding at times.It because they are strong human beings but not God..They too have vulnerabilities and are allowed to make mistakes.
This story is about JOEY.Joey is a 19 year old boy living in Mumbai working in a call centre to support his family.He is very ambitious and strong person,wants to achieve something in life.Joey...She lives in New York..A 31 year old single mother works as journalist.She takes care of her child and she is very strong,hardworking independent and confident woman.There is another Joey in Tokyo...who is 26 year old transgender and often judged and misunderstood..Who works for an NGO.Joey is very strong and determined and faces the world boldly..Finally My favorite...Joey who lives in Berlin...14 year old boy..who wants to be a violinist...wants to play internationally.He is very charming,polite but very strong individual..He is very focus and clear about his dream.
Do you find something common about all the character's other than their names????
All of them are very strong..Inspite of their age,nationality,gender and professional,they are determined and accepts all the challenges in their life and faces them boldly..They are not much affected by what people's think or say about they..Their vision is very clear about their life....Then howcome strength have any weakness....Everything of too much is dangerous...Even being too good is harmful..
All of them are going through the same struggle..In the process of being strong and showing strong...They forgot to cry,they forgot that they can be weak at times and have their own vulnerability..They are so hard on themselves that at times they forget to enjoy life..As they are very strong so maximum of the responsibilities are given to them.Even if there is no bandwidth they cannot say NO and tries to prove themselves everytime..that they can handle everything..They often don't knw how to react..Even if they are deeply hurt or upset they show they are strong unaffected..Even if they show they are upset...or they vent out...All they get to hear.."How can you react this way?You are so strong?You are the sorted person?Atleast you should behave sensibly or matured.
We always assume them to be strong...We always expect them to be the same..as they have always been strong..We feel that they can handle it by their own.The truth is even the strongest people needs support and understanding at times.It because they are strong human beings but not God..They too have vulnerabilities and are allowed to make mistakes.
My only intention of writing the blog was we talk about weak people and how to help them.We don't exactly understand the pain of always being strong.Its later becomes like a mask which you have to always wear even when your heart is breaking into pieces.I have met many strong people in my life and often felt them to be weak in terms of emotions.During fragile state they show extra calmness or anger.Its only beacuse they don't understand how to react or maybe putting a smile is better than having tears in eyes..
I know you are very strong person which is definitely your strength but don't hide your emotions always...don't be too hard on yourself and be vulnerable at times to someone who is very close to you..Act childish and make mistakes..I bet there is no one in this world who made 100% right decision..Most importantly don't blame yourself if you are knockdown..Its life..Live your life with joy..I knw you are fighter...but heal yourself 1st for the next battle...So that you can definitely win...
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